I’m so glad you’re interested in learning more!

Let me tell you all about my membership program.

Join us to live a life fueled by love.
Nurture your capacity for meaningful human connection.
Help make our world a more conscious and compassionate place.

12+ hours of live calls every month

Mondays at 6:30pm CT – with Yvette
Wednesdays at 12:30pm CT – with Yvette
Thursdays at 5pm CT – Practice Call

Join our vibrant community of professional healers, journeyers, leaders, teachers, humanitarians, and life-long students. Attendance at live at live calls is optional; replay videos and transcripts are always made available.

Connect with our community of open-hearted humans like yourself.

You’re a great fit for my membership if …

  • You want to bridge the gap between where you are today and who you’d like to become.
  • You’ve been delving into multiple personal development programs (for example Nonviolent Communication, Byron Katie, Brene Brown, personal therapy, Integral Practice, and Somatic Experiencing) and want to integrate them with one another more deeply.
  • You’re in recovery from codependency and want to be more skillful with narcissistic people.
  • You want to BE what you’d like to SEE in the world.
  • You want to set loving, stronger, firmer, life-affirming boundaries without losing connection to people.
  • You’re a life-long learner and enjoy adventuring into your inner life and inner being.

If this sounds like you, you’ll fit right in! 

You’re a great fit for the membership if:

  • You want to bridge the gap between where you are today and who you’d like to become.
  • You’ve been delving into multiple personal development programs (for example Nonviolent Communication, Byron Katie, Brene Brown, personal therapy, Integral Practice, and Somatic Experiencing) and want to integrate them with one another more deeply.
  • You’re in recovery from codependency and want to be more skillful with narcissistic people.
  • You want to BE what you’d like to SEE in the world.
  • You want to set loving, stronger, firmer, life-affirming boundaries without losing connection to people.
  • You’re a life-long learner and enjoy adventuring into your inner life and inner being.

If this sounds like you, you’ll fit right in! 

What’s included each month?

Become stronger, wiser, and more connected to yourself and others.

One participant recently said, “I feel like I’m getting deep training in being a better human and living peacefully with others without giving up any of my own strength or authenticity like I usually feel like I have to do.”

Member Calls with Yvette

Ongoing teaching and real-time feedback and coaching on the current challenges in your life and any of the course material that you are going through.

 (Think of it as a study hall meets private tutoring meets supportive mom.)

Like-minded Learners

Connect with other lifelong learners, self-development devotees, and mission-driven, openhearted professionals striving to make the world a better place.

 (No more wondering if there are other people like you out there and where you can find them!)

Resource Library

Get access to an archive of call recordings, previous trainings, and a library of invaluable worksheets and handouts to support your journey and development.

(Only one place to look for every handout imaginable!)

Connections & Community

Celebrate your wins, double-check your next move, find an empathy buddy or thought-partner, and debrief whatever inner conflict is getting you stuck right now.

“Yvette is a Black Belt in personal relationships and communication.”

“There is no one I know who is as extraordinary at working with people to have them get in touch with themselves and others in such a powerful, effective manner. Yvette is a Black Belt in personal relationships and communication. There is no one I’ve ever seen anywhere who can consistently and patiently deal with people’s wide range of challenges and provide such caring, heartfelt, wise and effective ways of addressing each of them. She is a gift to our world.” -Terry Gips, CEO of Sustainability Associates, Co-Founder and President of the Alliance for Sustainability

Let me ask you a few important questions:

  • Do you tend to manage all your own personal growth alone?
  • Do you feel frustrated that you’ve learned mindfulness, NVC, done therapy, read a million books but still get stuck or triggered when it comes to dealing with difficult people and conversations?
  • Do you ever wake up at night ruminating about how something went and what you wish you’d said instead?
  • Do you long for more meaningful, deeper conversations with others? Are you tired of small talk, shop talk, and superficial connections?

If you answered ‘yes’ to any of the above questions, then I want you to know – you’re not alone.

If you’re like most people who are seeking to be a better human on this planet then you’ve dreamed of having real, authentic relationships with people and a deep connection to yourself.

No matter how hard you try, it just doesn’t come easily.

But what if you had somewhere to turn to unpack the anatomy of what is really going on?

What if you had a place to talk through problems, get real-time insights, figure out where you are getting stuck, and get new options for moving forward?

 

What if you didn’t have to do it alone?

If you’re like most people who are seeking to be a better human on this planet, you’ve dreamed of having real, authentic relationships with others and a deep connection to yourself.

No matter how hard you try, it just doesn’t come easily.

But what if you had somewhere to turn to unpack the anatomy of what is really going on?

What if you had a place to talk through problems, get real-time insights, figure out where you are getting stuck, and get new options for moving forward…

…and not do it alone?

Here’s a place that can help you take care of the most important person: YOU.

Being the change you are seeking in the world means being confident, clear, courageous, and compassionate in all of your relationships, with yourself, others, and the world – at home and at work.

No more waking up at night wondering what you should have said.

Get the clarity and direction you need to know what exactly to focus on next to get where you want to go.

One of our recent course graduates wrote,

“I’d like to shore up and tidy my relational tool-box. At the moment I feel as though my metaphorical relationship workbench is a total mess. I’ve learned to use a bunch of new tools, but it’s frustrating when I encounter a moment when I know a tool is needed and I can’t decipher which and quite how it works…” 

 

Does that sound like you? 

That’s exactly why I created the membership: You get regular access to live group coaching support, a community directory of fellow self-development devotees, a learning library filled with archived practice group recordings, handouts and worksheets to help you on your journey, and special $50 member discount on private consultations with me.

Join now to create lasting, personal change with regular live support from me and others. 

“Yvette purposefully creates an extremely safe environment and culture where everyone’s feelings and needs are honored. Her facilitation and counseling skills are phenomenal, she is highly skilled, deeply empathic, very patient, exceptionally compassionate and extremely insightful.” -Dave Casey, Certified Life Coach and Organizational Development Consultant, CPCC

Who is Yvette Erasmus and
why should you pay attention?

If we’ve just met, you may be wondering what qualifies me to help you have cleaner, clearer, and more honest relationships with yourself and others.

So here’s my background:

As a teacher, writer, consultant and clinical psychologist, I have offered personal transformation, nonviolent communication, and leadership development training for over 20 years.

Inspired by growing up in the spaces between cultures, always on the edges and holding opposites, I was born during Apartheid to white South African parents where my father worked as a diplomat upholding racist and patriarchal governmental policies while my mother actively protested them.

We lived in Malawi, Germany, and Beverly Hills, returning to South Africa annually to visit family.

As I became focused on fitting into other people’s needs, beliefs, cultural norms and rules, I soon found that belonging everywhere also meant belonging nowhere.

My longing for connection, belonging, safety, and understanding lead me to the teachings and wisdom from multiple psychological, philosophical, and spiritual texts.

Now, my unique background as a global citizen with a Master’s Degree in Education and a Doctoral Degree in Clinical Psychology makes me uniquely able to help you bridge the gaps inside of you, between your heart, head, gut, and soul; and outside of you, bridging the gap between intentions and impact between yourself and others.

“But it was Yvette’s lucid and inspiring translation… that helped me to embody this practice and carry it with me everyday. I was first introduced to NVC by Marshall Rosenberg several years ago. But it was Yvette’s lucid and inspiring translation of NVC that helped me to embody this practice and carry it with me everyday. As a result, even the relationships in my life that were working well have grown more satisfying and joyful. Working with Yvette has been transformational. She has helped me discover how everyday life can be more awesome and wonderful.“ -Wendy Morris

What’s my investment?

For just $99 a month, you’ll get eight group coaching calls with me to unpack, process, and debrief the relationship and human dynamics challenges in your life.

That’s 12 hours of live time with me for less than $100. Plus, you’ll have instant access to a wealth of resources through our membership portal and the option to join a Practice Call on Thursdays at 3pm CT.

Private consultations with me generally costs $300 an hour, but as a member, you get more than three times the support for a fraction of the cost. And if you want to go more in-depth with a personal issue one-on-one, members get $50 off the cost of private consultations.

We cover similar content on the Monday and Wednesday calls each week. You’re can attend either or both, or just watch the replay videos at your convenience. Attendance for the live calls is completely optional.

For the weekly calls, our study and practice is focused around monthly themes, which are explored through our four-week monthly format – all outlined here:

Weekly Member Calls

Mondays 6:30pm to 8:00pm CT – with Yvette
Wednesdays 12:30pm to 2:00pm CT – with Yvette
Thursdays 5:00pm to 6:00pm CT – Practice Call

2021-22 Monthly Themes

September: Overcoming Defensiveness
October: Setting Loving Boundaries
November: Preparing for Holiday Conversations
December: Bridging Polarities & Cultivating Common Ground
January: Living into Your Values
February: Transforming Self-Doubt & Trusting Desire
March: Metabolizing Resentment
April: Rebuilding Broken Relationships
May: Moving Beyond Us & Them

Monthly themes are subject to change. 

Monthly Format

Week 1: Introduction
Week 2: Exploration
Week 3: Practice
Week 4: Integration

2021-22 Membership Calendar

Through the membership, you can cultivate the awareness and skills to become a more authentic and powerful leader, nurture deep acceptance of yourself and others, and create meaningful, peaceful relationships in the world.

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